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I Just Did a US Soccer C License. Here’s the Problem.
Apr 21, 2026
I Just Did a US Soccer C License. Here’s the Problem.

I walked out thinking one thing: good on paper, shit on grass. I've coached for 15 years. Hundreds…

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I Went To An Elite Youth Soccer Showcase. This Is What I Saw.
Apr 20, 2026
I Went To An Elite Youth Soccer Showcase. This Is What I Saw.

The prices are Premier League. The soccer is Sunday league. What elite youth soccer actually costs American families.

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The “Best Athletes” Myth Is a Lie. Here’s America’s Real Soccer Problem.
Jun 13, 2026
The “Best Athletes” Myth Is a Lie. Here’s America’s Real Soccer Problem.

The World Cup is live on home soil. During it, many Americans will reach for the same comforting…

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You Can’t Humble Your Way To A Trophy
Jul 1, 2026
You Can’t Humble Your Way To A Trophy

Being nice, humble, coachable, and technically sound is what parents and youth coaches celebrate. But on the biggest…

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The Fastest Kid On The Field Is Running Out Of Time
Jun 26, 2026
The Fastest Kid On The Field Is Running Out Of Time

The World Cup is on every screen in your house through the middle of July. You watch the…

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Elite Youth Soccer Is a Business. Your Kid Isn’t the Customer.
Jun 4, 2026
Elite Youth Soccer Is a Business. Your Kid Isn’t the Customer.

A mum I know paid $12k last season for her 10-year-old to play left midfield or ride the…

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About

Who is Paul Spacey?

Paul Spacey, youth soccer coach

Hi, I’m Paul.

I’m a nationally recognized coach and leader with 20+ years of experience.

Previously, I was a semi-professional player and referee. Now I help parents, players and coaches to better understand development and how to navigate the youth soccer landscape.

I’m a straight-talker and write things the youth soccer industry doesn’t want parents to hear.

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